What's Your Green Flag?

Question 1 of 10

A friend texts "can you talk?" late at night. You...

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The questions

All 10 questions. There are no right or wrong answers, so pick what sounds most like you.

1. 1

   A friend texts "can you talk?" late at night. You...

   • Call them immediately — you ask what happened first
   • Reply that you will call at 8am sharp tomorrow
   • Ask what is going on before committing to a call
   • Listen, then ask questions that help them think it through
2. 2

   Someone at a party looks left out. You...

   • Walk over and pull them into the conversation
   • Drag them into whatever game your group is playing
   • Ask them directly if they are having a good time
   • Bring up a topic they are passionate about
3. 3

   Your friend asks 'does this look good?' and it does not. You...

   • Say they look happy and that is what matters
   • Find the one thing that works — the confidence!
   • Say "if you love it, wear it" — their call
   • Gently suggest a different cut for next time
4. 4

   Your group needs to plan a trip. You...

   • Make a shared doc so nobody feels left out
   • Pitch the most fun destination and get everyone hyped
   • Build a detailed itinerary with backup plans
   • Tell everyone what budget actually makes sense
5. 5

   Someone you just met overshares their life story. You...

   • Match their energy and share something wild back
   • Listen carefully and remember what they said
   • Steer the conversation to something lighter
   • Ask thoughtful follow-up questions to go deeper

All possible results

Your answers lead to one of these 5 results.

The Safe HarborThe listener everyone needs

You're the emotional anchor of your friend group. You listen first, speak second, and people feel genuinely heard around you. No one has to perform strength when you're there. Your friends know that venting to you never feels like a burden.

The SparkThe human energy boost

You're the energy source in any room. Dead air disappears when you show up, and you can make a boring Tuesday feel like a Friday night. People come alive around you without even realizing it. That's not a skill — it's who you are.

The AnchorThe one who never flakes

You're the rock everyone leans on. You do what you say, show up when it matters, and people never have to wonder if you'll bail. Reliability isn't flashy, but it's the trait people value most when things actually matter.

The MirrorThe honest friend people trust

You're the truth-teller. No sugar-coating, no empty validation — just honest takes, even when they sting. Your friends trust your word because you never say what they want to hear. They come to you when they need to hear it straight.

The GardenerThe friend who helps you grow

You're the friend who helps people level up. You see potential others miss, ask the right questions, and nudge people toward their best selves without pushing. After every conversation with you, people leave with something new to think about.

How this quiz works

Every answer adds weight to one or more results. When you finish, you see the result your answers point to most, with its full description, and you can compare it with friends.

For entertainment and self-reflection only. This quiz is not a psychological, medical or career assessment.